By Helen Bushby
Entertainment and arts reporter
James Norton is intelligibly affectional astir his latest film, Nowhere Special.
This is not wholly surprising, fixed helium plays a terminally sick azygous parent, choosing a household to follow his young son.
"It made maine outcry erstwhile I work the script," helium tells the BBC.
Norton recovered it hard to clasp backmost his tears during filming arsenic good - helium was "sobbing my eyes out" during a poignant bedtime communicative scene.
They had to support reshooting until helium could bash it dry-eyed, to amusement his character's "strength and stoicism".
It appears helium wasn't the lone 1 to beryllium truthful affected by the storyline. Virgin Radio's Chris Evans said his woman recovered him "sobbing for 10 minutes" aft watching it, and called it "the astir beauteous movie I've ever seen".
Norton, who has starred successful TV dramas including Happy Valley, McMafia and Grantchester, and is regularly touted arsenic the adjacent James Bond, plays John, a model cleaner from Northern Ireland.
John, who has an unspecified illness, has conscionable months to live. He is wholly alone, isolated from his four-year-old lad Michael.
The movie sees him spell done the agonising process of gathering prospective families for Michael, for erstwhile helium is gone.
He based it connected a paper nonfiction helium came across, astir a azygous begetter who spent his last months uncovering a foster household for his young son, earlier helium died of cancer.
The manager tried to interaction the man's household via societal workers, but didn't get immoderate other accusation owed to privateness issues. So helium created his ain communicative astir John and Michael.
Pasolini, a begetter of 3 daughters, explains: "I was precise moved by speechmaking this nonfiction - each of a abrupt this antheral had to wantonness his kid and someway find the replacement.
"I could not ideate what it means to to beryllium confronted by that concern and however you grip it, particularly erstwhile your kid is truthful young. And it made maine deliberation - what makes a bully parent, what makes a bully family?"
With specified a adjacent enslaved astatine the bosom of the film, it was captious for Norton to get to cognize his young co-star, Daniel Lamont.
"The astir important portion of mentation was uncovering the narration with Daniel, and making definite determination was a existent affection, truthful weirdly it was a batch of conscionable playing and having fun, and gaining spot from him," Norton explains.
"We got connected truly well. It was conscionable making definite helium truly wanted to travel to work, and that the emotion we wanted to seizure connected movie was real."
But an unexpected broadside effect of this acquisition was that it made him reassess his ain life.
"It decidedly made maine broody," helium smiles. "I'm 35, I'm successful a semipermanent relationship, my sister has 2 boys who are nether 3 - the movie truly made maine deliberation astir having children."
'Life, emotion and family'
It besides made him deliberation astir his ain mortality.
"Being forced to contemplate one's decease successful a precise elemental mode is thing I deliberation we tally distant from astir of the time, alternatively than beryllium down and meditate connected what's going to hap erstwhile you die. It was truly cathartic for maine to stock a small spot of John's journey."
He recalls Pasolini handing him a tiny achromatic stone to enactment successful his pouch during filming, to "represent death".
"He told me, 'While this movie is not astir decease - I privation it to beryllium astir beingness and emotion and family, and cherishing moments we person with our loved ones - I besides privation decease to permeate each scene. So if your hand's successful your pouch oregon you conscionable consciousness the value of the rock, conscionable retrieve that for this character, decease is everywhere.'"
Much of the movie is precise understated. Feelings are expressed by looks oregon tiny exchanges successful moments of domesticity, alternatively than big, affectional scenes.
Pasolini chose Norton due to the fact that helium wanted an histrion who could convey a batch portion doing little.
"James is susceptible of that, he's technically amazing," helium says. "When I said to James, I privation to attack this with quietness, helium understood that immediately, and it gave america what you spot - feelings without show - which is hard."
But helium besides chose Norton due to the fact that of his appearance.
The manager wanted to research the thought of "seeing idiosyncratic who is physically not conscionable handsome but strong, and the opposition betwixt the concern and his physicality".
He adds: "Obviously a antheral of his quality would beryllium surrounded by women, but this antheral has dedicated the past 4 years of his beingness wholly to bringing up a child, and that is simply a emotion story."
Screen Daily's Fionnuala Halligan wrote astir Nowhere Special astatine the Venice Film Festival, saying: "When we request that cinema opens up to under-represented voices, John is 1 of them: white, poor, uneducated, alone, and with a troubled past.
"It's possibly unusual connected insubstantial that helium would beryllium played by an histrion similar Norton, but it's besides hard, having seen it, to ideate who would bash a amended job."
Norton, who has antecedently spoken retired against TV producers stereotyping "posh" actors, says helium is "nervous of being pigeon-holed" successful his roles.
"Everything which comes on [in my career] is caller and caller and scary - I effort to marque definite that it is - I don't privation to beryllium excessively comfortable," helium says.
He admits it's "flattering" to beryllium considered arsenic a imaginable James Bond, and says he's present much comfy appearing successful the property than helium utilized to be.
"As I got a spot older and much confident, I realised I don't person to springiness distant everything, I don't person to Instagram my beingness and speech astir my relationship.
"But I tin speech astir things similar being a diabetic, oregon having a hard clip astatine school, and hoping that those moments of honesty volition chime with radical who are besides diabetic, oregon who mightiness person besides been bullied successful school."
He adds the "cost of fame isn't immense for me" isolated from the occasional selfie successful a restaurant, which tin beryllium "a spot annoying".
The "most gratifying thing" astir having a profile, helium says, is erstwhile parents of young diabetics connection him to accidental proceeding him talk astir his experiences has made their children "feel truthful overmuch better".
The histrion work a batch astir adoption, fostering and bereavement for the role, portion Pasolini worked intimately with charities and organisations, to recognize the processes successful place.
The manager was astir keen to grasp "the emotions involved", taking proposal from the CoramBAAF Adoption and Fostering Academy.
Their argumentation manager Dr John Simmonds tells the BBC: "The movie creates a almighty penetration into a child's acquisition of these issues, and that is perfectly cardinal to the film's messages. Imagining what is going connected successful the caput of the kid is truly significant."
Dr Simmonds adds that though probe grounds is affirmative for adopted and fostered children, outcomes were "hugely babelike connected the commitment, sensitivity, determination and flexibility of the caller carer/s, and the availability of enactment services if the going gets tough".
Child bereavement foundation Winston's Wish besides worked with Pasolini, and a spokesperson explains: "It is truly hard to hole a kid for the decease of a genitor erstwhile they are not aged capable to beryllium alert of what decease means; but the movie uses transportation cleanable examples to commencement to physique a representation for Michael."
They besides praise the film's depiction of the "terrible tug-of-war wrong John, of wanting to support Michael against what is happening and wanting to hole him", on with its handling of "the value of memories".
Norton simply adds that the constituent of the movie is to "make definite you cherish the moments with the radical you emotion - we conscionable privation radical to telephone up oregon scope implicit to whoever they're with, and springiness them a hug".